Be Careful
Online dating has opened a whole new world of dating opportunities for men and women alike, but there are some things you should consider before you take the plunge. While most online dating sites work hard to ensure the safety of their members, exercise caution regarding the personal information you provide online. Also, you are developing relationships with people outside the normal day-to-day routine of work and other frustrations, so don't move to quickly. Make sure you give yourself ample opportunity to meet and spend time with your online date in the 'real world.' Finally, set realistic expectations for your online dating experience. You're still dealing with flawed human beings; don't let the technology make you forget that important point.
Should I Give Out My Phone Number?
You've been chatting with someone online, and now he (or she) wants your phone number. What do you do? Always err on the side of caution and never give out your phone number unless you can say a very confident "yes" to the following questions: Do I know this person very well? Do I trust this person? Do I have absolutely no reservations? Am I confident this person is who he or she says they are? Am I totally comfortable giving out my phone number? Only if you can answer all questions positively and without hesitation should the number be exchanged.
Internet Dating
Many people are turning to Internet dating services to increase their chance of meeting someone new. Before you join, compare monthly fees and ask if you can do a free 'test run' before you make a major commitment. Once you are online, determine how much personal information you are going to give out about yourself, and how many people you are willing to communicate with on an ongoing basis. The emails can pile up! Remember, online dating is still dating -- it takes time to get to REALLY know someone. If you are truly interested, move from the Internet exchanges to phone calls to that first in-person meeting in a public setting. This is an important safety precaution that you should always take. Good luck!