Lighten Up
We worry too much about dating. We worry about everything from talking too much to whether our boy/girlfriend really likes us. If you worry too much or have little confidence in your dating skills, lighten up!1) Be kind to everyone. This will create success because everyone likes being around kind people.2) Be upbeat! No one likes to be around someone who is constantly negative.3) If someone likes you, expect them to treat you with respect and warmth. If they don?t, don?t waste your precious dating years on someone who is going to abuse you.Remember, people are attracted to people who calm, centered and happy. And if you act that way, you will begin to feel that way!
Dating Choices
Everyday we make choices. Every choice we make affects the lives of others. Our choices may seem simple, but the reality is each choice we make has positive or negative consequences. In dating relationships we make choices on a regular basis. Consider the following choices that everyone who dates must make.1) To treat the people we date with respect or not.2) To be kind rather than mean.3) To take advantage of the people you date or to refuse to hurt the people you date. 4) To be happy or sad on your dates.5) To lift others up or tear them down.6) To act like a gentleman or not.7) To act like a lady or not.8) To send value into the hearts of your dates or not.9) To abuse someone (emotionally, verbally, physically, sexually) or not.These are choices we make all of the time. They may seem simple, when in reality these choices affect how close we get to others. They also affect how intimate we become in our relationships.
Dating Resolutions
Most people start the new year with a list of resolutions. It's a nice way to start fresh, to start anew. As you begin a new relationship, consider making some dating resolutions so that your new relationship can have a fresh start, too. Some resolutions to consider include:1) I will listen more than I talk.2) I will be more positive.3) If I criticize my partner, I will show an increase in love afterwards.4) I will be more patient.5) I will be loyal to my partner.